2 more things...

1) Every morning when I go to toast my toast and put hummus on top of it, I have to pour a ton of standing, nasty water off of the top of the hummus.

2) I forgot, that at that one sex social hour thing the other night that one ph.d. student who does psychology and is also a BDSMer and does BDSM activism was saying that he reads about sexual minorities constantly and can tell you the difference between a polyamorist and a swinger, but that it's great to come somewhere and actually hear about the difference from a polyamorist and a swinger themselves.