Addendum.

I forgot --

The frat guy who was dating the S&M activist hostess before she got called up for the Peace Corps suddenly and had to leave the country before the series was over (this happened very quickly, she had her application in for years) used to be in a frat, and he was telling me and my friend who I went with the sex documentary social hour that there was a lot of gayness in frats.

He said he knew several gay guys who would tell everyone they were signing up for the frat just to get action, and that they said it was the best no-strings-attached sex ever, since the guys just wanted sex and wouldn't want to acknowledge it later at all.

Also, it was really easy for straight guys to mess around with each other, he said, since everyone partook in ritualized drinking where you would drink to the same level of drunkenness based on your tolerance level (some people drank more or less depending on their level so that everyone got equal levels of fucked up), and then if someone stayed over, you could just say they were drunk and crased on the couch in your room or whatever, and no one would bat an eye.

He also said that the paddling was very sexual, as was the official dance of every fraternity, which usually involved some cheesy Britney-type pop song where everyone would get in the middle of the room and dance in this big lump where everyone had arms around each others' shoulders.

He also also said that one time he and some brothers were smoking a bong with vodka in it instead of water, and the girlfriend he was with at the time told him to make out with a brother sitting next to him, and he loved it, and later when he was talking with people from other colleges around the U.S., he found that this kind of shit happens a lot (he thought it was just his fraternity).

He also also also said that when they all weightlifted together, he found he could lift more bench-pressing if a brother was standing over him yelling at him and telling him he could do it.

The dude was a total submissive.