Another interesting “Wolf of Wall Street” sexual dynamic.

From Jordan Belfort’s “Catching the Wolf of Wall Street”, pp. 184-185 – in which scene (set up in the memoir as told to the U.S. Attorneys’ Office when he agreed to cooperate and entrap associates), he reminisces back to how after he showed an acquaintance how to do stock sales afterhours and the guy’s girlfriend was in the room, they were driving back all together across Long Island so they could drop Belfort off at the apartment he shared with his (first) wife –

We were in Kenny’s red Mustang:  He was behind the wheel, I was in the passenger seat, and [the pouty-lipped girl who I nicknamed] the Goldfish was sitting between us, on the armrest, wearing a tiny midriff T-shirt and some wildly sexy perfume.  We were on the Cross Island Parkway near the exit for Bayside, when Kenny said to her: “Go ahead sweetie, tell him!”

“No’” she whined, “I’m too embarrassed, Kenny!”

So Kenny said, “Fine, I’ll tell him, then,” and he looked at me and said, “She got really turned on watching you sell tonight, so she’d like to blow you.  And trust me:  The girl can suck chrome off a trailer hitch!  Just look at her mouth.  Pucker up for him, sweetie.”

I looked at the Goldfish, astonished, as she stared back at me with her fabulous goldfish lips puckered up into a sensuous pout.  Then she started nodding her head bashfully, as if to say, “I’d like to blow you, sir!”...

Well, needless to say, the Goldfish overpowered me, and next thing I knew she was giving a world-class blow job as we cruised down the Cross Island Parkway.

And as I groaned in ecstasy, Kenny the Pervert kept one eye on the road and one hand on the steering wheel, and his other eye on the Goldfish’s mouth and his other hand holding back her brown hair, so it wouldn’t disturb his view...  I shot my load, if I recall correctly, right in front of P.S. One Sixty-nine, where I’d attended public school.

The dynamics in this scene are *fascinating*:

- At its most basic, the voyeurism of a “live porn” scene, where the angles aren’t right and the viewer intervenes to ensure a good sightline.

- Male bonding through proximity during sex acts.

- Male-to-male deferment in which one guy acknowledges another’s (sales) prowess by lending him his girlfriend, and the other guy demonstrates his (overall, including sexual) prowess by using the girlfriend in front of her boyfriend.

It’s easy to see how this could devolve into the situations like in the first memoir, where it’s okay for one broker to make another suck him off, since it’s not gay, it’s just a demonstration of power.