Addendum to a few posts ago.

I forgot -

So, last Tuesday the hostess for the sex documentary-discussion thing said she's excited about how people are starting to talk about cultural representations of male submission, and how you used to see only busty dominatrixes in leather (which is what the larger culture wants to see), whereas now you can see if you look just a bit actual pictures of male submission (which is what BDSM female tops [=dom, in lingo] and male bottoms [=sub, in the lingo] usually want to see).