Addendum.

I forgot -

I saw my one neighbor who I volunteered in Indiana with for Obama in the produce store downstairs in our building after getting back from the sex survey, and since I had texted her to tell her I was going to do it -- I thought she'd be interested, and she was! -- she was asking me about what it was like, what videos I watched, etc.

Anyhow, when I told her about the couple lesbian videos, she was like, "To tell you the truth, I don't get lesbian sex. What's so exciting about it? There just doesn't seem to be much to it, to me at least," being very deferential and sensitive like she always is, since she's a human rights lawyer-in-training and tries to be like that.