Overheard conversation at a (repeat) bar...

...that I went back to in a rich neighborhood, since the name for the downstairs bar changed to something different than the upstairs restaurant (though I vaguely remember maybe stopping through the downstairs bar as well before, for the name change, maybe):

A(n early 40s) (white) (female) rich person, to a vaguely similar guy:  [something something, something] "no, I haven't been to Amalfi yet, last time I was in Italy I went to [something something, something]

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...it was like some sort of "in the know" thing, where people talked of a certain set of places where everybody went to in Italy... so weird...